ask sam #toughlove…tim, nyc

Dear Sam,

As much as I love my wife, sometimes she can be a controlling bitch and it’s starting  to affect our sex life. What can I do to let go of this anger towards her?

Tim, NYC


Dear Tim,

Most women are controlling, it’s in our nature so don’t take it personally. My advice for you is to take that pent up anger and use it as fuel for desire in the bedroom, or in other words, hate fuck her. You’ll release both endorphins and resentment. Now, if she’s not into that sort of thing, and you can’t convince her to get into it, go for a rub N tug massage once a week. Either way, both options will turn out to be #happyendings.